****NEW! Click on this link for the musical selection to accompany this blog article https://www.tristanluke.com/emily What I’ve found is, the worst part of fear is the expectation of it. And, what we resist, persists. * I used to avoid the hurts, the pain, by analyzing the crap out of it (being in your head is …
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Blossom Your Sparkly Self ❤ I made this my intention in 2018. As a result, 2019 has been AHMazing! Find your ridiculous awesomeness, and never try to be something you’re not. You’re already perfect the way you are. If there’s something you want to change, then set the intention, commit to it, and take committed …
Surrender has been my daily Intention. It is not “hard” its just “different.” When we have difficult backgrounds of trauma, loss, rejection, fear, and poverty consciousness we build walls of protection. This is fear-based ego driven thinking. The problem with walls is, they keep out the good as well as the bad. I seek to …
Hello, my name is Paula. (Hello, Paula….). I am a recovering OUTSANE control freak….. Many people I work with in my coaching practice have what I would call an “Out of Body Experience” in their communication styles. In short, they are OUTSANE. During a conversation, they have a difficult time staying present, especially when asked …
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Summer 2017, I found myself at a business conference in Las Vegas. I was rooming with a new girlfriend of mine, someone super fun, lovely, kind, and smart. In some ways, we were both just short little Italian grown up mommas with tons in common, and in other ways we were different enough to incite …
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Meditation is such a powerful form of mindfulness, spiritual guidance, connection to self, connection to source. When I meditate for 30 minutes, I feel as if I slept 6 hours. What keeps you from meditating daily? For most of us, time is a huge concern. “WHEN in my busy day will I ever get to …
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Why does everything have to MEAN something? In my experience in my own life, I’ve found that attaching meaning to everything has gotten me into a lot of trouble. Assuming someone’s motivations? Ditto. So, why do we do this? We are brought up so much in our analytical brain, that from a very young age …
We all have a little storyteller in our minds, like a freaking running commentary on every minute of our life. Every. Little. Second. Like, you needed to have this, right? Imagine if you had some dude following you around, night and day, commenting on every little thing you did, said, thought, acted on, didn’t act …
A lot of my clients ask me how to stay productive when things are going wrong. That one used to stump me, as well. Something would happen (a break up, my kid getting sick, a disagreement with a coworker, whatever) and I’d just not be able to function. If it felt like a deeper injury, …
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What’s really going on here when we self sabotage on goals that are important to us? Let’s unpack this a bit: Announce Clear goals – not just “ I want to lose x amount of weight” or “I want to make more money” or “I want to find my soulmate.” Ask Yourself about your pain, …
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